"I need your help to combat this, please help link me with other people who can help!!If you read that, thank you.
My dad has always been my lifeline... the only one I could trust and confide in...
But now it is time to reverse that lifeline, and I will be his.
The doctors are grim, but my dad is young, and we will fight this with everything we've got.
If you have been through this, are going through this, or know someone who is going through this, please contact me.
We are working with Chemo for the lungs (inoperable) and lazer radiation for the brain.
We are looking for safe holistic medicine as well. One article given to me from you guys has proved very very helpful...
If you are from the TN area, or can suggest any holistic doctors in middle TN, please note me for my email address. Even if you live far away, please ask your holistic doctors for recommendations in middle TN.
I will fight this with everything I have, and all of you are like a lifeline as well. any and all help is worth looking into.
other information that may be useful:
*It is stage IV - but limited to the lungs (largest size is about a quarter) it is considered stage IV due to its spreading to the brain, where we are currently treating 20 very small legions via lazer radiation.
*It is located on the outside of the lungs only, not in the throat or surrounding tissue.
*Friday will be the confirmation of whether it is non small cell or small cell.
*Currently he does not feel sick, just tired.
Please send me what you have or what you know, every little bit counts. Thank you guys, and I would ask that please, could you repost this journal for me? I need your help, and I have to take charge. There may be someone watching you and not me who could help. This is very important to me. Thank you all, *seriously!*"
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Personally I think the worst thing in someone's live is when a dear person to you has a disease that is hard to cure or that is IMPOSSIBLE to cure...It's always full of stress,sleepless nights,fear of loosing the person and sometimes you wonder how the person feels.I experienced this with my grandfather.He escaped...but I was looking with fear at my mother.She was being so lost in her toughts always,crying,acting desperate when things weren't coming out good.
In diseased like cancer..I think it hurts the fact that somehow the person's live is in your hands,because you're the only one to help.And here is how the desperate feelings come because you know nothing can be done.And it hurts.And you start being stubborn...."There has to be something!!!"
And..after this long comment...
It really is a horrible thing.
I am sorry to hear about your grandfather.
I think the stubbornness is necessary. It's good to hang on with some hope. There are miracles. One never knows.
But otherwise it certainly is a nightmare.
Awww, I think of dA like that too. We are a family in a way.
Yeah..the stubbornness is necesarry because you have a hope.But if things end up wrong,that hope vanishes and there appear bad feelings because you were so stubborn.This is what I think....
Family~ *jumps and hugs*
I hope he gets better.
It's like climbing up a mountain. The higher you go, the further there is to fall. So the more hope you have, the more painful the crash is if it doesn't work out. But it's worth the risk I think.
You know what?You're right...it's like climbing a mountain.But maybe sometimes there is also a "rope" to hold you if you're about to fall.
I'm thinking now...Usually there are people that don't believe in God everyday,maybe just when they're desperate and who knows.
But in general,believing in God makes the hope more powerful...And somehow it was the same with my grandfather.
lol...Sometimes I think his accident(it was something with a cardiovascular problem near his brain because of the heat;hard to explain in english) was also some kind of test us,his family.Like...how much we can trust God and pray for him...and maybe also to show that even if we argue with him,we wouldn't be able to live without him.